Weird Things People Have Said to My Sister

Since Judi's diagnosis and surgery, people have been incredibly kind to her---and to me.  Many people have expressed their willingness to help whenever necessary, to keep her in their thoughts, prayers and practices, and to be there as support for her.  But then there are the people that just say weird things....

1.  "Don't you feel like you won the unlucky person lottery?"

2.  "Aren't you terrified?" (before going to Emory for surgery)

3.  then there was one about hospitals making mistakes but I can't quite remember it.

I know all these people were trying to be kind...but geesh.....