Is it still Monday?....or Waiting for Judi....

Geesh what a day. Owen did one of his patented idon'twanttogotoschoolwhydowehavetogotoschooleverydaydon'tyellatmenobodygetsme  kind of tantrums this morning.  Then I called my mother to talk a little bit about Judi and found her all riled up, upset about her homecare worker and in tears about that and of course worried about Judy.  I got her calmed down but I gotta say...but geesh.   Anyway....had a good talk with Judi's friend Gina last night.  What I really want at this point is for Judi to come stay with us for awhile.  We have an office (more realistically a junk room) that we could turn into a room for her....I laid there in bed last night when I couldn't sleep from coughing and thought  about paint colors.  Judi sees her oncologist today.  Hopefully she can get some relief from some of the chemo side effects and get some straight answers.

Gina said Judi is worried about Ernie having to take her to chemo everyday, etc.  He has said he of course would be happy to do that but in addition we have friends that would help out, I know there are volunteers that help with that too.  We could make it work.  When things get  closer to the end I know she wants to be in an area where there is more of a Buddhist community for support....but who knows, maybe we could dig up some Tibetan Buddhists as well!

Anyway....that's my plan.  But of course you know how well my plans seem to go of late so we'll see.  So...Judi?  We're ready and waiting....